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The Pope Says Something Sensible

In the news today, I read that the Pope encouraged mothers to breastfeed if they needed to during a baptism. He reportedly said:

“You mothers give your children milk and even now, if they cry because they are hungry, breastfeed them, don’t worry.”

Stands to reason, really.

Mary breastfeeds baby Jesus in the 16th century artwork, “Virgin of the Green Cushion” by Italian artist Andrea Solario.

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A Censored Confection

Early this morning, I was scrolling through my facebook newsfeed when I saw a post from one of my favourite websites to waste time on- Cake Wrecks. It’s the kind of website that instantly makes me feel better about even my most humble baked offerings. Today’s post was a first birthday cake smash cake and was presented like this: 

Image credit (See the “uncensored” version here.)

I must admit, I was surprised by the censorship. It’s cake- not real boobs!  But I can imagine that if enough conservative types reported the image, it could shut down their facebook page temporarily, so fair enough. 

Out of curiosity, I clicked on the comments to see what the reaction was. It was refreshing to see that many people saw the humour and the association with a breastfed baby. I know my little one would have tried to latch on immediately like she did with her first Barbie doll once she’d got it’s dress off!


What was disappointing was the number of comments that were negative. Yes, I know, I should learn my lesson and stop reading comments! The cost of a curious mind, I guess! I can understand some might find a booby cake a bit crude or unappealing to their sense of humour. However, I can’t understand the people who said such a cake was inappropriate for a child- but more suited to a bachelor’s party.

Yep. The World Health Organisation recommends breastfeeding children for 2 years and beyond. But breasts are for MEN. 


Breasts are for MEN, not for CHILDREN. Not even for WOMEN, despite them being firmly attached to our chests. I’ll leave that with you…


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Guest Post: Because I’m a mother.

I often write about nursing- nursing in public, nurse-ins, nursing education and support… This post is about the other kind of nursing- nursing as a profession- and the unique set of challenges faced by mothers in this profession. This profession is arguably the backbone of our healthcare system; from hospitals to clinics to aged care and more. While we certainly have male nurses it is still a female dominated field and where there are women there are invariably going to be babies and children.

Is it possible to be a mother and a nurse? Yes…but not without often significant disadvantages.


Take my guest blogger, pictured above with her family, who wrote the piece below. April Abbott is a Registered Nurse with extensive experience in her field who has effectively been forced out of the hospital system in order to meet the needs of her family. Recently the National Centre for Social and Economic Modelling compiled research showing that some mothers are earning as little as $3 – $4 an hour once childcare fees are taken out. In April’s case, a typical week’s take-home pay is completely obliterated by childcare fees, she must keep working a certain amount of hours to maintain her professional registration- yet she cannot work in her chosen specialty area. Here’s what she has to say.


Let’s face it; the future of healthcare in Australia looks bleak. As a society we’re getting older and sicker, and we keep expecting more of a system that just can’t keep up with the demand. When you add an ageing nursing population and the very real prospect of a healthcare workforce shortage the picture looks pretty grim. So why is it that, in the midst of a national debate about health care funding, a Registered Nurse (RN) with over 7 years experience in Intensive Care and an extra 3 in other areas of nursing can’t get a permanent job in a hospital? The answer – because I’m a mother.

I’ve always known that being a nurse is about sacrifice. And like all mothers, I understand that working takes away from time with my family, and that’s fine. It’s not just about the money, I love my job. I love knowing that I make a difference, that I can spot when a patient is about to deteriorate and take action to stop it. But I can’t be available 24 hours a day anymore and that means I can’t work a rotating 24/7 roster which that means I can’t get a job.

Let me share a conversation I recently had with a Nurse Unit Manager of an ICU unit who was advertising for RN positions. I highlighted my fairly extensive experience and explained I was looking for a job closer to home following a period of maternity leave. Her immediate response was “I don’t allow any of my staff to work regular shifts so you will have to work a fully rotating roster”. I explained that was impossible due to child care requirements and her response was “The rule applies to everyone”. Effectively – Do Not Apply. So here I was, the perfect candidate for the position but for one small detail, I needed to work the same shifts each week. This isn’t a one-off for me, I was bullied in my previous position for being too “needy” with my shifts, and I’m not alone. One colleague tells of how she is forever swapping afternoon shifts because they don’t work for her family, and has seriously considered leaving the profession. Another talks about the lack of childcare for shift workers, saying:

“It’s a struggle [arranging childcare] and it takes a great deal of planning and patience before I even get to my job, which takes even more out of me.”

I need to put it out there; these issues aren’t exclusive to nurses. No matter what the job, every mother faces challenges trying to find a work-life balance but shift workers are particularly at risk of facing this difficulty. There are, however, a few differences for nurses. Firstly, we are notoriously selfless and rarely complain in any significant way about our working conditions. Secondly, we are more likely to suffer from health problems than people of other professionals at the same age, probably because we are so willing to sacrifice our own needs for the job, not to mention our higher than average exposure to illness. Thirdly, and most importantly, we simply cannot afford to lose our experienced nurses!

I made the decision to switch to practice nursing and I love working at a local medical practice. It’s a shame that my years of intensive care experience aren’t being utilised but I can’t live with the uncertainty of not knowing who is going to look after my kids so I can work week to week. It would seem that I’m a minority, others in my situation are leaving the profession or putting up with the inflexibility, but at what cost?

We need to tackle this issue now. Nursing was always known as a family friendly profession that supports mothers. Now it has become inflexible and even hostile, and it must stop. If we continue to push away our experienced nurses we will be left with a serious skill shortage in 10-20 years. We will be left without the most valuable nurses, the Clinical Nurse Specialist, the Team Leader, the Senior Nurse on a night shift who you know you can count on in an emergency. And we will be left with a junior workforce who haven’t been given the opportunity to learn from the more experienced and specialised nurses. Even if we don’t see a continuation of the trend for nurses to leave the profession, then stresses of the job and trying to balance it with family life are just too high. With recent reports showing 63% of Australians and 24% children being overweight, obese or morbidly obese, this is an issue that affects us all. The current “Return to Work” rules aren’t adequate and often aren’t followed. 

We need to value our nurses. We need better legislation and, more importantly, better support from hospital management. We need to change the culture of expecting nurses to put up with it or leave. What we can’t do is close our eyes and hope the problem goes away. So how can make things better and retain nurses in the future? Well, you might not like it, but the answer is providing nurses who are mothers of young children with ‘Special Treatment’. Yes, you read that right, Special Treatment for working mothers. Do we want it? Not really. Do we feel entitled to it? Huh! You think I became a nurse for all the entitlements? The truth is, nurses who are mothers of young children NEED special treatment, and you need us to work.

We can make it happen by providing mums with regular shifts for the short time during their career that they have dependent children. We can provide child care in hospitals to suit shift workers, and ease the financial burden of childcare on shift-workers. Most importantly, we can stop labeling working mums as “selfish”, “difficult” and “entitled”, or lump the responsibility of establishing a work-life balance solely on the mother because “she chose to have children”. These statements show that, as a society, we place little value on the care of young children, or their role as our future workforce. Some of the best nurses I know are mothers. They are patient, empathetic and highly skilled at multi-tasking. They love their work, they are passionate about the profession and they are in the unique position of being involved on both sides of the nursing station, with frequently sick children. Please let’s not toss these nurses aside because it’s too hard to make the roster work! With only a few small changes we can ensure that our future nursing leaders remain in the workforce, and remain at the forefront of a world class health care system.

If you want to see more flexibility for nurses with families, consider emailing the Australian Minister for Health or the Minister in your state:

NSW Minister for Health The Hon. Jill Gell Skinner 

VIC Minister for Health The Hon David Davis

TAS Minister for Health The Hon Michael Ferguson

SA Minister for Health The Hon Jack Snelling

QLD Minister for Health The Hon Lawrence Springborg

WA Minister for Health The Hon Dr Kim Desmond Hames

ACT Minister for Health The Hon Katy Gallagher

NT Minister for Health The Hon Robyn Lambley

Australian Minister for Health The Hon Peter Dutton

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