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World Breastfeeding Week 2014 – A Celebration in Pictures

This gallery consists of photos kindly shared with us by some proud mamas to kick off our World Breastfeeding Week Blog Carnival, hosted here at HandbagMafia and also at Five Degrees of Chaos! Enjoy!
If you want to submit your photo get in touch via facebook


Linking with With Some Grace for FYBF

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I Almost Got Caught in the Top-Up Trap


Bennie was a big baby, just over 4.4kgs when she was born (Around 9lb 12 oz in the “old money”) and 58 cm long- I made the midwife triple check because it seemed ludicrous that someone so tiny could be so apparently large.

As soon as she was born, I put her to the breast, but she wasn’t terribly keen on feeding. She had a few drops of colostrum and that was it. It was the middle of the night and we were both pretty exhausted and eventually went back to the maternity ward to sleep. We had a couple more attempts at feeding but she was just so sleepy! The next day, a midwife said that she thought Bennie had probably had swallowed a lot of amniotic fluid and just wasn’t hungry yet. It took a couple of days for her latch to get sorted, then we were home free. The latch pain continued to be an issue for some time, though. 

When she was a week old, we had a home visit from a midwife who weighed her. I’d noticed her nappies weren’t always saturated- she was probably getting 3-4 wet ones per day. A turn on the scales showed her weight had dropped to 3.8 kg so we were instructed to top up with formula and visit the local lactation consultant clinic. Two or three lactation consultants checked and one mentioned a slight tongue tie- but made no mention of revision, so we plodded on, not realising until much later this may well have been a factor in her ability to feed adequately. 


There was no mention of donor milk or milk banks, no one talked to me about expressing techniques (to this day it’s not my strong point!) and the information on using formula to comp feed was varied depending on who you spoke to. No one spoke to me about a supplemental nursing system except a friend I had made online- someone who gave me more advice and encouragement than any health professional I had seen. 

The one thing the Lactation Consultant clinic did help with was the latch- they showed a few positions and one in particular sat with me until we got it right. This was far more helpful than the hospital approach where they jammed my boob and her head together and hoped for the best (well, this is what it seemed like they were doing!)

My GP had given me motilium (aka domperidone) at my request, to help increase my milk supply, but my other doctor within the same medical practice refused to issue a second script, telling me to switch to formula because “It’s the same as breast milk these days!” and while formula is a fine alternative- it is just NOT the same as breast milk. (Incidentally, the first doctor also told me not to breastfeed my daughter when she had her first and only bout gastro to date as “she shouldn’t have any dairy”- good thing I’m not a cow, then, right?)

The LCs at my local clinic wouldn’t tell me exactly how much formula to offer when trying to comp feed and not one of them actually explained to me that using formula was going to reduce my supply further. Things like nipple confusion were not discussed either.


I took matters into my own hands and started reducing top ups. I stopped offering the dummy at rest times and consciously began to feed to sleep for every nap. I ate lactation cookies and drank nursing tea. I took herbal supplements and ate foods reputed to boost supply. 

It took until Bennie was about 4 months old until we weren’t topping up at all any more. We’d gone from topping up at most feeds at our worst point (a case of mastitis tanked my supply at one point and I had to work hard to get it back!) down to 1-2 top ups each day when I stopped offering top ups altogether and just kept breastfeeding. We decided to offer 1 bottle of formula at night to give me a break as although my supply was greatly increased, I seemed to have a smallish capacity which meant feeding was very frequent. She also liked to feed for a long time- around an hour per feed until she hit about 5 or 6 months. She didn’t have a bottle every single night but it was handy to know it was there if needed and that she would drink it happily.

I won’t lie- I felt my efforts to breastfeed were not well supported by my health care providers. More than one GP was dismissive and unhelpful with issues relating to breastfeeding. The lactation consultants who I saw were very nice and some helped me with latching- but I felt they did not discuss all options with me and didn’t offer much in the way of information. What saved my breastfeeding relationship with Bennie was determination on my part and the support of some very well read and encouraging friends who were happy to troubleshoot with me. It has cemented my belief that more women would breastfeed and breastfeed longer with more consistent education and support- something that might come around if more family doctors decide to do a bit of study in the area of breastfeeding. They are often our first point of call with any issues and I know in my case, I was definitely let down.


This is what a breastfeeding toddler looks like…sometimes. Most of the time, it’s more like this:image

Bennie is 22 months old now, and still breastfeeding. She will stop when she’s ready to, I guess. I haven’t really set a time frame. I’m grateful I was able to stick it out and grateful for the knowledgeable ladies who helped me through the hardest parts because it’s so beneficial. I don’t just mean nutritionally- though there is that! For this little girl, it’s a big source of comfort and connection and I’m happy I can give her that.

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Bloggers, below you’ll find a linky where you can add your breastfeeding posts. If you don’t have a blog but you have a story to share, get in touch with us and we’ll give your voice a platform.

How to link up

  • If you’re new to linking up, it’s very easy!
  • Scroll down to below the other linked posts and find the blue button that says ‘submit your link’ and click it.
  • Paste in the URL of your post, enter the title of the post (or your blog name) and your email.
  • Click submit.
  • You will be given the option to choose which image will be displayed as a thumbnail for your post.

A few little guidelines:

  • Your post must be breastfeeding related. This blog carnival is a celebration breastfeeding- and that includes the struggles and the hard times as well as the successes, whether you breastfed for a day, a week, a month or several years!
  • We’d love you to read other blog entries, leave comments and share your faves on  Facebook or Twitter- take the opportunity to discover new blogs! Please keep comments positive, respectful and supportive, every breastfeeding experience is important.
  • Let your friends know about the linky – while not mandatory,  a link back would be much appreciated it can be as simple as ‘Linking up with HandbagMafia and Five Degrees of Chaos for their #WBW2014 Blog Carnival’

Link! Blog! And Boob!


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Breastfeeding- a snapshot (or two…)

In the lead-up to our World Breastfeeding Week blog carnival, I started going through my photos. I took them (or had them taken) for myself firstly- because for me, being able to breastfeed was a hard-won battle and also as just a part of our family photos- candid shots that we will look back on in years to come.

It can’t be ignored that the breastfeeding selfie or photo has a place in normalising breastfeeding- so I thought I’d put a few of mine up ahead of the carnival and breastfeeding image gallery to remind anyone interested to submit their entries!







Don’t forget, the linky will go live at 6 am here on August 1st!

Don’t have a blog? There’s still time! Submit your blog entry of breastfeeding photo to me via facebook or to Emma at Five Degrees of Chaos to be included and for the chance to win some great prizes!

Linking up for Wordless Wednesday at My Little Drummer Boys

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